I was watching this showbiz talk show a few weeks back and because movies about cheating are the favorite topic of the movies right now, this talkshow host asked this actress who is part of a movie about cheating this question”
“Are you willing to be a secret affair?”
This got me thinking because I don’t get it why some settle for being the other woman or the other man when you can be the woman or the man.
I know no relationship is perfect but if you work together and talk about the flaws of the relationship, you’d find a solution, meet in the middle and make it work.
And since I am a woman, I just don’t get why some women get satisfied being the scheduled partner, the home wrecker as some people say, the other woman or the secret affair.
I know there are also lots of jerks out there who make women believe their single. The only problem is when the girl finds out about it sometimes its too late that the love is already there and you’d just agree to being the love that can’t be known. I just hope that for women who is in this situation you’ll eventually get your senses back and decide what’s best and what’s right.
Now, for those women who is aware that the person they’re making their moves on is married. I really don’t know what to say but maybe God Bless and hopefully you’ll realize that you can do better. Tearing up a family or a relationship is just plain wrong. I think you’d feel hurt like the woman you took your guy from when your partner cheats on you.
And for those women who knows about their partners cheating and is tangled up with the web of lies your partner is telling you, I wish you luck and hope that time would come that you’ll realize how crazy your situation is and if you can get out of that kind of relationship the better.